“Your G-spot is on the top wall of the vagina halfway between the opening and the cervix-so if you’re fingering someone, it’s up and under, I would say. You know you’re touching it when it feels like you’re touching a slightly rougher surface, like the surface of a nut.”
“It’s about a bunch of different factors, like kissing and taking your time and being tender, or being rough, depending on what the girl wants. There’s no required time to spend on foreplay – you just have to feel the vibe.
If she’s moaning, she’s enjoying it. If her body starts shaking, or if she looks like she’s having an exorcism performed on her, she’s getting close. That’s usually a good sign.”
“I think a quickie is usually about five to seven minutes, and something more passionate is usually about 10-15 minutes. I get chafed and tired and Sportscenter is usually about to be on.”
“I don’t think size matters at all, the best sex I ever had was definitely not with the most well-endowed man I’ve ever been with. It’s really all about the way you treat a girl and the way she feels about you.
If you’re small, you can put a pillow under the small of her back helps with angles. And if she goes down on you a lot, she’ll be able to deep-throat you easier and you’ll feel like a rock star.”
“Yes. Yes, it does. It hurts a lot. The only time girls do anal sex is when they really, really, really, really like a guy.
I will say a lot of lube really helped, and it was enjoyable after the first two minutes, but even then, it was a different kind of enjoyable than I could ever describe.”
“Pull out and go back to foreplay if you feel yourself getting too close. She’s not gonna get mad if you pull out and start going down on her. She won’t even know that you’re trying to not come. She’ll think you’re doing it because it’s hot, and it’ll turn her on more.”
“Maybe you’re not listening enough to what she wants and you need to go slower, or be more gentle. Maybe the connection’s just not there. Do something romantic with just you two. You don’t have to whisk her off to Bora Bora – just do something small and intimate with the two of you, to reignite that flame.
Above all else, if you two aren’t having sex anymore, you need to talk about it, or else it’s just not going to change. But tread very lightly. If my significant other came up to me and said, ‘We never have sex,’ I know I would get defensive.”