1

“Give some love to the erogenous zones. The neck and ears are a given, but the spine and the middle-lower back are sensitive too. Also, go for the inner thighs and that sweet spot where the thighs and pelvis meet.

I feel like this is something guys WOULD do if they thought about it, but trust me; if you’re trying to incorporate foreplay more, light licking and touching in these places could make all the difference. My man does this for me and it’s honestly one of my favorite parts of sex.”

2

“I wish more men felt comfortable moaning and making noise during sex! It’s such a turn-on!”

3

“When I say “Just like that” actually stay just like that. Don’t go faster or slower or anything – stay just like that because for the love of God if I have another ruined orgasm I will scream. Fortunately, that shit is a thing of the past.”

4

“When they keep fucking me through my orgasm… Jeez, it’s next level..puts me in a coma. Feel the O coming and just don’t stop till I’m wrecked.”

5

“Moans! It’s the hottest thing on Earth and it’s a shame some guys are actively trying not to make a sound. We like it when we can hear we’re doing a good job!”

6

“Wife says making out with clothes still on.”

7

“Proper foreplay. Making sure I get mine – usually by focusing entirely on my pleasure. Be comfortable with toys… like, you’re not competing against a dildo, you’re both on the same team. Switch positions occasionally. Don’t stay in just one unless it’s REALLY working but don’t switch it up every 10 seconds.”

8

“Make out like high schoolers and hold off on penetration for a bit.”

9

“Oral. Not to shame anyone who isn’t into it, but at least let people know beforehand that it’s not your jam. The worst is adding a sex partner to your roster only to find out that you’re just wasting your time.

There are women out there who aren’t into oral. Find those broads and waste their time, not mine.”

10

“I want to be touched and kissed all over my body. Not just the lips.”

11

“Slowing. The fuck. Down. On every part of it. Don’t rush through the makeout stage. Don’t rush through foreplay. Don’t finger super fast and aggressive.

Don’t just go straight to the clit and chainsaw it with your tongue. Don’t jackhammer me from start to finish. Take your damn time. Move intentionally. Slow is pro, man.”

12

“Using toys. It’s not that you’re not good enough, it’s that I can have 3 orgasms in the time you have 1 and that feels like more fun for everyone involved.”

13

“Not being in a rush, start slow, work your way over to the good spots. Tease a bit. Just generally seeming to be thoroughly enjoying the entire body/experience. Had a partner for a bit that was great with this. Just genuinely seemed to be loving the experience and was in no big hurry for it to be over.

Plus the compliments were amazing. “God you’re so beautiful, that’s so hot, how is your skin so soft, etc.” It’s funny because outside of bed we didn’t have that great of chemistry, ended up ending the relationship because of that. But damn if that dude didn’t know his way around a body.”

14

“Truthfully, setting some limits and expectations before beginning. Then you can shove me into the wall, slap me in the face and fuck my throat until I gag, but let’s talk it out first. Dragging me by my hair right after a kiss is assault. Telling me you’d like to do it and asking if it’s ok is hot.

Also toys. I can cum up to 8 times. Just keep going until I tap out. There are more powerful orgasms still in the queue.”

15

“Guys.. when you’re fingering a girl you don’t just spear her like a god damn animal. You curl your fingers and do a “come hither” motion. Going in and out doesn’t really do much. This is one of the most awkward things to correct and almost no one does it right. I think if I met a guy who could finger me properly I’d marry him.”

16

“I will give my man a blowjob anytime he wants a blow job. But I find it a turn-off when he straight-up asks me “Can I have a blow job” out of the blue. Or “Can we fuck now”.

Kiss me, pull me to the bed, give me just a few minutes, SECONDS of foreplay, and the deed shall be done, I promise.”

17

“You’re not going to break me. I’m not big (5’2”) and some guys have seemed worried that they were going to hurt me or something. Not all of my partners have been lightweights, and the heavier of them tend to be a little more careful about that than necessary.

You’re not going to crush me! Also: a little roughness will absolutely not kill me. And if it’s a well-timed surprise, even better.”

18

“Being aggressive. Dominating me like he can’t wait to fuck my brains out. Push me against the wall and just manhandle me. Throw me onto the bed and tear off my clothes. And talk dirty to me while you’re doing it.”

19

“Sounds. I know some guys may feel weird about being vocal, heavy breathing/moaning/groaning/saying how incredible something feels, but there is nothing that makes me feel more like a goddess than when I can hear his pleasure like that.

Makes me feel like I’m doing everything right, and it makes me feel like I never want to stop driving him crazy.”

20

“The guy with whom I had the best sex I’ve had thus far would hold me in his arms and run his nose up my stomach to my neck, kiss all the way down my arms, and compliment me on my body. Every so often, he would look at me for a second and then just kiss me, like he couldn’t help it.

When we actually had sex, he always made me feel like he wanted me so badly he couldn’t help it. It was one of the sexiest, most flattering things anyone has ever done to me.”

21

“When he is fucking me without just doing the ole “in-out-in-out.” It’s kind of a vertically rotational movement. When he enters, it is angled kind of like he’s trying to touch my belly with the end of his dick, then when he’s all the way in, he holds it for a second or two, and I can grind against him before letting go and sliding back out. Leads to more of a slow humping motion than “bouncing.”