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“The most effective thing a guy can do is have confidence and conviction in what he does. If he goes to spank me and I can tell he’s hesitant, then that is not a turn on for me.”

-Chanel Preston

2

“When it comes to positions, get creative! I love standing missionary — one of my favorite scene partners always takes me outside and f*cks me up against a wall standing, both in our off camera and on camera time — I love it!” 

– Tasha Reign

3

“Just be dirtier. I haven’t had sex with a normal guy in so long, I don’t even know. I’m trying to think back to when I first started dating my husband. I just wanted him to be rougher and dirtier. That was it. I felt like he was holding back or something.” 

– Joanna Angel

4

“Do a little sexting during the day to build up the anticipation of sex or even watch porn together!”

-Samantha Saint

5

“My advice is to explore. Explore yourself, and your partner.”

-Isabelle Deltore

6

“Just straight-up ask your partner what she likes. Communication goes a long way, and if you think it’s awkward, get over it because the end result is worth it.”

-Asa Akira

7

“One of my favorite sex positions is the Pile Driver. Prior to the adult business I had no clue it even existed. This move is acrobatic and creative in the essence that you are basically turned into the human pretzel. The female is turned upside down, legs wrapped around her partner’s waist while he penetrates downward. I really wish my partners who aren’t in the adult business would use this move more often.”

 – Nikki Delano

8

“Make sure you’re making eye contact during missionary.”

-Mia Malkova

9

“Master the art of edging. It helps keep a heightened sense of excitement and energy while doing the deed! I recommend all couples focus on it together because it’s not going to be fun, fabulous sex if only one person has a ton of intensity during sex.”

-Daizha Morgann

10

“Watch porn! Most couples are afraid of it, but it is an amazing tool to spice up any sex life, young or old. There is something out there for everyone!”

-Angela Sommers

11

“Having sex on camera has made me really good at threesomes! So many guys ask me if they’re hard to pull off. My No. 1 tip about threesomes is to always make sure that you always pay enough attention to your girlfriend during the sex. The lure of a new partner can be overwhelming, but be sure to remember who you sleep next to every night!” 

– Aiden Starr

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“I like positions that blend. Like cowgirl, reverse cowgirl, doggy. I wanna be wrapped up in someone.”

-Kayden Kross

13

“The most important piece of advice I’ve learned is that we are all responsible for our own orgasms. In more detail, this means we should be comfortable with our bodies and familiar with what turns us on and what gets us off. It also means that we should be able to express to our partners when we like or don’t like something, and communicate what it is that we need in bed. If your partner just isn’t doing it for you, as long as you’re not speaking up, it’s your fault. It starts with you.”

-Jessica Drake