Sex Therapists' Insights: Common Issues, Solutions, And Etiquette (20 GIFS)

"Never stick anything in the butt you can’t pull out easily. If something ends up stuck in the butt, don’t try to get it out – you’ll only push it in deeper. Prepare for a really weird poop."

"The nipple is amazing – but there’s a whole tit you’re not paying attention to."

"If you’re girthy, don’t just shove it in. For the love of fucking god, don’t just shove it in."

"Shower and wash your butt."

"NEVER FUCKING DOUBLE WRAP. You might as well not use a rubber – the friction will cause holes in both."

"Wash your goddamned sex toys. And consider using condoms on them. They’ll last longer, and be more hygienic. But wash your goddamned sex toys."

"If someones eating you out, and you’re enjoying it, tell them."

"Handjobs aren’t supposed to hurt….at all."

"Men – there is an orgasm button in your butt which will give you an orgasm like you have never ever experienced in your life. You can hit it yourself, but it’s easier with a partner. Good luck."

"Sexual dysfunctions (like premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction, sexual pain etc.) are the most common problems though. The standard treatment for these (if the cause of the problem is not biological) is sort of a “reprogramming” of the couple’s sexuality. It’s called Sensate focusing by Masters & Johnson. The convenient thing about this method is, that you can adjust it to almost any sexual dysfunction and every couple’s needs. Depending on the dysfunction, specific exercises can be added, for example the start-and-stop technique for premature ejaculation, dialators for vaginismus or masturbation training for anorgasmia."

"As romantic as it sounds, never sleep inside you partner/have your partner sleep inside you, if you’re using a condom. Between shifting and shrinking, all that semen will have a nice easy opportunity to work it’s way up the sides of the rubber."

"You should pee afterwards because it helps prevent UTI’s. and you should only pee during sex if your partner is cool with that."

"If you think you need to use lube, use lube. Try to use a water-based lube. Never use an oil based lube. Never use a silicone lube on a sex toy."

"Don’t use flavoured condoms for penetrative sex. They’re better than nothing in a pinch, but you’re pretty much asking for a yeast infection."

"A vibrator isn’t a dick replacement. Don’t be intimidated if her dildo is larger than you."

"If you cum on a girl whether it be face, tits, ass, whatever – get her a damn towel afterwards! Having to stumble to the bathroom to find a towel while jizz rolls down your body is not what’s up."

"Don’t just stick it in. FOREPLAY PEOPLE, FOREPLAY. Dry sex is not kind."

"Guys (or gals)…if you are going go to finger a woman, please keep your fingernails neat and trimmed and for god’s sake…wash your hands first!"

"Sometimes girls queef, we can’t control it and please don’t comment on it."

"Sometimes, the dude isn’t going to get off. Perhaps he’s tired. Perhaps he jerked off earlier that day. There’s nothing wrong with it and he should never be made to feel embarrassed."