Phone Sex in the digital age. Who would think that Phone Sex has a place in today's society with all the tech, on-demand video, and live video performers from around the world? But it does, and it is thriving. Phone sex allows for a discreet, anonymous connection, where a caller can speak to the same provider and build a connection, revealing their innermost desires and fetishes without the embarrassment of having their real identity known.

It gives the caller an outlet to show a side of themselves that they don't want known. Many married men call in and talk about their desires to be with another man, perhaps dress up in panties and nylons. Some want to be dominated and told what to do—things that you would not expect from a married man with two kids and a 9-5 job. It provides a way for them to live out their fantasies without being outed to their families or the public in general.

Where do these callers go to connect with someone on the phone? As most people know, the internet is filled with all kinds of adult sites. I will review the top three Adult Phone Sex Sites. 

Phone Darlings:  The newest site among all, this platform went live in September 2023. It took a different approach than other sites, being designed with the Darling (Provider) in mind. Addressing issues faced by providers on other platforms, the sign-up process for Phone Darlings is simple and smooth, taking only a few minutes to set up an account for either the Darling or the caller.

Phone Darlings offers various ways for callers to connect with Darlings. They provide a direct connect system that functions similarly to most modern apps, with the connection made via the site, akin to Skype or WhatsApp. Additionally, they offer phone calling, and their system is highly reliable and swift. One-Way and Two-Way video calling are also built in, eliminating the need for external platforms like Skype.

Unlike Niteflirt, Phone Darlings has fewer restrictions on discussion topics. They do not record calls like Talk To Me, prioritizing customer privacy and refraining from actively monitoring calls or chats.

Phone Darlings charges a flat 25% commission for using the site, with no connection charge or bidding for placement. The homepage rotates listings every time it is refreshed, providing each Darling with time on the front page without incurring additional charges. For example, if a Darling charges $1.00 per minute, they retain $0.75 of that dollar.

Phone Darlings has excellent customer support. Most inquiries are answered almost immediately, and never later than 12 hours. With over 130 providers on the site within three weeks, it appears their customer support has contributed to their success.

Phone darlings is currently offering $5 credit for all new customers.

Niteflirt:  The king of them all, Niteflirt, has been around the longest and boasts the largest user base, receiving the most traffic for sure. However, being the biggest does not necessarily mean it is the best. Niteflirt has a long history as it was the first in the industry. It is easy for the customer to register and create a customer account. However, setting up a "Flirt" account is not as straightforward. To create a Flirt account, one needs to know HTML5 and adhere to numerous rules regarding wording and images that can be posted. Niteflirt also has many violations of their Terms of Service, which could result in Flirts having their account taken down.

The customer service provided by Niteflirt is not very helpful in establishing a new account, making it a challenging process. In order for a Flirt account to gain visibility, it must enter a bidding program that can be costly. Niteflirt runs its bidding program based on an algorithm that seems to work against the Flirt. Initially, the "Value Score" starts at zero, and as it grows, the bidding price for placement decreases. However, some of the calculated values, such as new customers and views, may cause the value to drop, raising the bid price. Flirts have been known to spend all they make in a day on bids.

Niteflirt charges Flirts a $0.20 per minute connection charge. After deducting the $0.20 connection charge, an additional 30% is taken from the remaining amount earned during the call. For example, if a Flirt charges the customer $1.00 per minute, the formula is ($1.00 - $0.20 = $0.80 – $0.24 (30%) = $0.56 to the Flirt before they pay for bidding.

Niteflirt has also been plagued with call connection and call dropping problems for the last six months. Some calls are never connected, some take two or three tries to connect, and some calls are disconnected mid-call. This has become a significant issue. Additionally, Niteflirt does not provide any type of video connection; one needs to connect via Skype for video and call Niteflirt simultaneously to conduct a video call.

Talk To Me: "Talk To Me" is very much like Niteflirt, but it allows discussion of many more subject matters that are against the TOS of Niteflirt. Setting up a Provider account on Talk To Me is actually more complicated than on Niteflirt. You must create an account and complete a certain number of minutes of calls at the company's promotional rate. Until you reach a specific amount of minutes at the promotional rate, your ad will not be visible to the public.

Talk To Me's call connection appears to be much more stable than Niteflirt's. Calls connect fairly quickly and don't drop as frequently. However, Talk To Me explicitly states that it records calls, and it is believed that these recorded calls are analyzed by some form of AI to identify site violations. Some providers have had their accounts suspended for saying certain things, mainly related to mentioning the word "Niteflirt." Regarding adult subjects, Talk To Me is non-restrictive.

Talk To Me charges a flat 65% of everything the Provider makes. If the provider charges $1.00 per minute, they will receive $0.35 of that dollar. Talk To Me does not offer any type of video connection, instead opting for a tribute on the site and then moving to Skype for the call. This requires the Provider to keep track of the time so the customer does not stay connected for a longer duration than they paid for.

Talk To Me seems to have more "newbies" on its site, providers who are just entering the business. This doesn't mean veterans are absent from the site, as many providers have accounts on both Niteflirt and Talk To Me. However, to make the same earnings as on Niteflirt, veterans may need to charge customers a higher amount.


Our recommendation:

After reviewing and using each site, it is clear that Phone Darlings offers the most benefits. Despite being new, occasional "Newness Bugs" are promptly addressed by their customer service. They charge the least to the provider, allowing those who do the work to keep the majority of the money.