1

"I was chatting w this girl outside my gym and she suddenly put both hands on my chest and SHOVED hard sending me back against my car. It was weird and unexpected and… woah what is happening downstairs? New feelings unlocked."

2

"My friend (now gf) was intentionally annoying me, to get my attention, while I was working on something. I grabbed her wrist firmly and pulled her back from my desk.

She let out the softest moan before quickly muffling it.

I was a little startled. Would have assumed I misheard/imagined it if she wasn’t blushing the color of a root vegetable.

I knew, in theory, some girls are into that sort of thing.

First time seeing it in practice.

That’s how I figured out she was into a little rough handling. Also how I figured out blushing girls get me harder than Chinese Algebra."

3

"Women who put their ponytails through the back of their baseball cap."

4

"Back when I didn’t get a lot of attention from women I once got rock-hard when my recently deceased friend’s widow clutched me tightly crying over the grave of her husband. It wasn’t intentional, and I certainly wasn’t proud of that moment(and didn’t act on it). Definitely the most uncomfortable boner of my life."

"The Mourning Wood"

5

"I have a serious women’s upper arms fetish, especially with the slightest bit of muscle tone. You show up in something sleeveless, holy shit that’ sexy."

6

"Watching my man go pee"

7

"In high school, I was shopping with my crush. She tried on a pair of very high heels and used me for balance. She stood up and was a good 4-5 inches taller than me. Having a girl look down at me like that a woke so much in me. She had to know I was pitching a tent, but she never said anything."

8

"When my husband comes home from work all dirty (he works construction) I just want to fuck his brains out before he showers. Or I’ll just stare at him while he works on his truck… or if one of our relatives asks him if he can please install their brand new water heater… or can he fix something electrical… ugh… I tag along just to watch him."

9

"(For women or people who love men) when a guy does that thing where he reverses the car and puts one hand behind your headrest, looks behind you and the other PALM on the steering wheel and just reverses, turning the wheel with his palm. Reminds me of the 80s for some reason because nowadays we have reverse cameras, but goddamn that was hot"

10

"When I see prominent tanlines on anyone. Gets me every time."

11

"Smart men (nerdy ones). Many good-looking men I’ve encountered are not polite (egotistical) and generally not too intelligent so I like going for the quiet smarties"

12

"I dated a guy after my ex-husband who drove manual. Never saw that before, but as soon as I saw him shifting I was throbbing. It was a crappy beater car too, nothing fancy, but something about him knowing and how to change gears just got me going. My fiancé is a gear head and it still turns me on to watch him drive."

13

"When someone knows a lot about a specific thing/subject and they light up with passion when they talk about it. This goes for literally everybody, not just my love interests. It’s just sexy af"

14

"Women wearing boxers"

15

"Seeing someone’s middle finger rolling the middle mouse button"

16

"Pain medication by IV in the hospital. I get hard every time they dose me."

17

"A girl playing with my hair gets me hard asf"

18

"Women who have a lower/deeper tone to their voice"

19

"When my SO is super sweaty. The natural reaction should be to think she needs a shower but I honestly want to grab her and smell every single inch of her all day when she’s sweaty."