1

"Be vocal. Say what you want, say what feels good, say what doesn’t. Either communicate with your partner, or don’t be upset when it’s mediocre."

2

"When you are fingering a girl, rather than going in and out like a maniac, try either rotating your fingers or using the come hither method. Both are much more effective."

3

"Here’s one that requires little to no effort or skill. Compliment, compliment, compliment. Your partner will feel better, more confident, comfortable and receptive."

4

"The neck, guys. Girls like the neck, guys like the neck.

Everyone likes the neck.

(No but really, it’s super sensitive. Use that to your advantage.)"

5

"When you’re doing regular missionary, you can also press her legs together, and do a more circular thrust that involves up and down motions rather than just in and out motions. Some girls like it deep, but a lot of the pleasurable points of a vagina are within the first couple inches of the entrance."

6

"Guys: If she likes something, and she’s into it: DON’T GO FASTER. Maintain the same pace and she will enjoy it more and more."

7

"Don’t be afraid to laugh together. Sex is a ridiculous and hilarious series of acts. The best sex I ever had was when my partner and I were not afraid to be goofy and silly and just enjoy each other."

8

"You don’t always have to fuck her hard. In fact sometimes that’s not right to do. Sometimes you’ve got to make some love. And fuckin’ give her some smoochies too."

9

"Key to a good blow job – Tongue over your bottom teeth, and suck in your top lip. No toothy feeling makes for an enjoyable experience.

Don’t suck too hard or it will hurt – but how fast you go, and how hard you suck means it is anywhere from warming them up, to simply teasing, to “I’ma try and get you off.”

Listen also to a mans breathing and learn to recognize his pattern for general enjoyment and to try and make the experience more varied.

Remember that the tongue is also VERY important and that the penis generally has different spots of sensitivity.

A blow job shouldn’t be like a car ride; boring and generally going in one direction. It should be like a roller coaster, fun and varied and always something new to keep you excited."

10

"Foreplay. Foreplay, foreplay, foreplay, foreplay, foreplay.

Just like a guy needs to be hard, a girl needs to be wet."

11

"Eye contact. Not too creepy though, lol. I like watching his reaction anyways."

12

"Don’t make it about your own pleasure–take pleasure in his/hers. That way, they get more into it when you’re already into it, no one has to be the dead fish, and everyone has a good time!"

13

"Be present in the moment. Pay attention to body language. When she says right there, don’t speed up, don’t slow down. Be right there."

14

"Men/women: you gotta be a good kisser.

Nothing is more important to get (and keep) things going."

15

"When you go down on a woman, go the fuck down. Do not lick it just a bit, deep French kiss that thing."