“My wife tells me, that she is turned on when i come out of shower in a robe with a messy hair and smelling nice.”
“I was told by a woman that a man is most attractive when working within his gift. So whatever that natural talent is that you have (the thing you do best that’s the easiest for you), when you are doing that, you are most attractive.”
“Being able to fix things.”
“My old flatmate found it attractive when this guy she knew “walked into a room and looked around commandingly.”
“I’ve seen enough women talk about it that I can say “hands.” I’m not sure what the specifics are, but women like hands.”
“Being kind to animals and toddlers/babies, as they can’t do anything in return.”
“Rambling about a strong interest or hobby of theirs. I don’t think this one is universal and it only works if I already like them, but nothing is hotter than someone talking passionately about what they love.”
“NSFW but moaning. I love when men moan. “
“A big turn on to me is being a devout listener, listen to me speak, look me in the eyes when you talk to me and I you. Simple things like that are a huge turn on. Having my back, another. Exuding not only kindness but warmth as a person. Being someone “strong” that can take charge when something distressing happens.”
“A sense of security and safety. So many men think you have to ‘keep them on their toes’ or else they’ll get bored and stray, when really the hottest thing you can do is make a woman feel like she can trust you and relax completely around you.”
“Sharing: Anything that is intimate and personal to you. Letting me in to your life, your history, anything that’s made you who you are. Hands and forearms – strong and muscular. Quick wit and fabulous sense of humor”
“Cooking. He doesn’t do it often because of his schedule, but when he does it’s super hot. He gets really into it and is so proud of the final product.”
“Being romantic . Being protective .”
“Not having an ego about everything! A man who can relax and not assume everything is an attack on him.”
“Not constantly yapping and making a fool of yourself. I noticed that younger men who grasp attention of women often act very loud and draw attention to themselves that way often through like trying to act tough, I’ve even seen memes be made about this. Most women I’ve met often actually notice more calm and collected guys.”