1

"Being able to build or make things, food included."

2

"First date with my wife I cooked her favorite dinner. She’s eaten dinner with me every day ever since."

3

"Weight lifting. I really want a middle aged woman who is strong enough to throw me to the floor and choke me with her thighs."

4

"I’ve had had girls ask me to move in because I’m a mechanic. Note i know it’s not a Hobby but come on"

5

"My wife loves to draw / colour. She can be on the couch next to me while I’m playing video games and we’re both perfectly content not saying a word."

6

"Wood working – think custom cabinetry."

7

"I love a girl who can play the bass."

8

"A guy who reads. i feel like most readers are women"

9

"One of the defining moments of my relationship with my now wife was the time we were driving somewhere (we were friends for years before we got together) and got a flat tire. I went to fix it; I’d jacked up the car, pulled the flat off and as I turned to go get the spare, she handed it to me. It wasn’t exactly rocket surgery, but the unspoken ‘we’re fixing a tire; you pull the bad one, I’ll dig out the spare, even though it’s heavy and dirty’ was a ‘huh’ moment, compared to my previous relationship."

10

"Guys who volunteer for a good cause"

11

"Absolutely. My wife, who had zero interest in gardening until a pandemic hit and she couldn’t go anywhere or do anything else, is now absolutely obsessed with gardening. She’ll ask for help if she needs it with something but otherwise it’s her thing for her.

I think she’s a bit embarrassed that it makes her an old lady or something but I’ve told her it doesn’t matter what the thing is that you’re into, if you’re really fucking into it that is to be encouraged. Everyone should do what they love if they can. It makes life so much more enjoyable."

12

"Guys who are into fashion"

13

"Girls who play volleyball"

14

"Women who play boardgames."

15

"Men who play guitar/ piano and also sing well"

16

"Sports, The gym, overall health and fitness. Shows a dedication to themselves and a long term goal which is equally as attractive as the physical attributes that come from being an athlete/into weight training."

17

"I’m a dude and I do cross stitch and needle point and woman think it’s incredibly cute"

18

"Gamer girls"

19

"Just being their own person with their own interests, hobbies, and opinions on things."

20

"I’m not sure if it was true for all the women in the entire state, but when I spent a summer in alaska it seemed like most of the women we met were much more self reliant than we were used to. When we got back home that summer when they asked my buddy about the women he said they were “sexy af bc they could fix their own sinks”"