1

“Lube. For the love of god, don’t be afraid to buy lube. It will make that one position soooooo much better.”

2

“If sex is only fun when you do oral or hand stuff or just kissing or whatever, then don’t make yourself do anything else! Just do the fun stuff. Sex shouldn’t be work.”

3

“A little hack, if you have a gag reflex, is to just squeeze/press down your thumb with the rest of your fingers. It stops you from gagging and choking.”

4

“Always explore. Try new positions. You have no idea what you’ll discover and what other avenues of ecstasy you might unveil.”

5

“Ladies, moaning or humming when going down on your partner will add an extra vibration/sensation in your throat.”

6

“Try throwing an ice cube in your mouth the next time you go down on your partner. It’s magical.”

7

“If you’re doing anal, always prepare accordingly… if you know what I mean. But also realize that your body will always have the final say, and sometimes… s@#t happens. It’s nothing to be embarrassed about!”

8

“If she says she’s close, don’t stop what you’re doing. She’s getting close for a reason, because what you’re doing is working for her. Changing up your technique in the middle of an orgasm can stop the whole thing.”

9

“Some things may sound weird or unpleasant or even awful, but sometimes stepping out of your comfort zone can be so worth it, and you may find something that pushes all the right buttons.”

10

“The bu@# is such a taboo part of the body, but why should it be? I’m glad I got over my insecurities and explored this area of my sex life. It brings my partner and me both extreme pleasure, and that’s a beautiful thing.”

11

” The best trick I ever learned was to drink grapefruit juice, orange juice, or basically anything acidic. The low pH level causes most people to salivate like wild, which is always good when you’re going down on someone.”

12

“Don’t be too proud to incorporate toys. Ever since my partner and I started throwing toys into the mix, our sex life has become infinitely more passionate.”

13

“Unless you’re in a pinch, never skip foreplay. Not only does it feel amazing, it’s incredibly intimate and helps prepare your body for what’s next.”

14

“If you’re enjoying something, SAY SO! I love hearing that what I’m doing is good.”

15

“Don’t be afraid to take things out of the bedroom. Sometimes, all it takes is a change of scenery to create a sensation you never thought you could feel.”

16

“Do some research together. Check out all things sexual and discover something new.”

17

“While dirty talk might be uncomfortable for some, it’s always worth a try. Start small. Little things like communicating that it feels good are always a great place to start.”

18

“Don’t forget to please yourself on your own time. It’s important to keep in touch with your own body.”

19

Explore all erogenous zones of the body. There are tons of places that have nerve endings and feel amazing when stimulated during foreplay or sex.”