"When a woman says “don’t stop” keep doing exactly what you’re doing. same rhythm don’t go faster or change anything."
"Get out of your head, it’s not a test. Have fun."
"Make noise. Even a grunt is better than silence."
"To take breaks during blowjobs if I need it.
Took it from something I almost dreaded and wanted to be done with as fast as possible because my jaws hurt, to something playful and fun where I could truly focus on his pleasure and try to give him the best orgasms possible, letting it take the time it takes."
"It’s okay to tell the other person your likes and dislikes. Just don’t share too much detail about previous experiences."
"The best advice that my ex gave me was “you finish too fast.”"
"“Wrong hole, dummy.” Changed my life."
"Actually had a girl explain to me the mystery of the clit, where to find it, how to stimulate it, *when* to stimulate it, the difference between vaginal and clitoral orgasms, etc.
I took sex ed classes and had some sexual experience, but I learned a lot from her — especially about oral sex — just because she took the time to tell me what she wanted."
"How about you trim down there, so it doesn’t feel like I’m flossing while I’m blowing you.’"
"If you’re going down on a girl and she is obviously getting close. FOR THE LOVE OF GOD DON’T STOP DOING WHAT YOU’RE DOING OR “change it up.” Keep doing exactly what you’re doing, exactly how you’re doing it with literally zero variation at all, even a little bit."
"Suck don’t blow"
"Stop, collaborate, and listen."
"Don’t talk about pokemon cards during"
"“Its not the size of the wave, but the motion of the ocean”
I took it from her to mean that it didn’t matter the size if you had the technique down. So I focused on technique and over time I got pretty good at sussing out each new woman fun spots.
Of course it wasn’t until many years later I realised what she was really telling me was that I had a small dick and shouldnt let that bother me."
“Do not baby talk during sex”
"No matter how many precautions you take, this act can make children, be sure you’re both ready for that."